One Minute Overview of the Meaning of Life – Manual For Living: Reality, A User’s Guide to the Meaning of Life, Seth David Chernoff. Balance and connection, intimacy and relationship, peace and love, evolution and fulfillment. What we desire cannot be “obtained,” for it can only be experienced–the result of a life of commitment and service. Can we achieve lasting happiness? Can we find fulfillment or obtain true love? What exactly is a spiritual life, an inspirational life, a fulfilled life? What really is possible in life? Can we have it all?